Sexy is a mindset- Not a waistline
I think I finally figured it out — that guys are also attracted to bigger girls. Shocking right? Growing up, I never thought that plus size girls would date. Or even get recognized. But that's because I was a plus size girl who wasn't really noticed. But then I got confident in my size & I just don't give a damn what other people think.
I think it's harder for most BBW women to go to the bars and pick a guy up because they don't know if the guy is interested or not. I don't have that problem, because if you're not interested, whatever, that's your problem. I'm not afraid to flirt with somebody. If I'm interested in somebody I let them know.
I'm here to tell you that sexy is a mindset, not a waistline. If you want to wear a tight dress that hugs your curves, the. Honey do so. If you want to wear a pair of heels that makes ya butt look good? Flaunt it. Do/Wear what makes you feel great no matter what. In the dating world, take care of yourself first and then someone will come along. Speaking of being a plus size in the dating world...
Most of my BBW friends date guys of all sizes. I think some of them are attracted to bigger guys, but actually I would say it's about half and half. I'm really a personality person TBH. I don't think men judge women for their looks any more than women judge men. It goes both ways. I think most women have to get over their own insecurities and realize that there are plenty of men who find them attractive, and if a couple don't, that's fine. They don't realize how much fun they are or how attractive they really are. Just because a guy isn't attracted to you doesn't mean there aren't other men who are attracted to you. Find your niche and be the Queen you know you are. Flaunt the thighs & bat them eyes, ladies. So do what makes you feel beautiful no matter your size.
Ps: I don't skinny shame. This is just the perspective coming from a BBW like myself.
I think it's harder for most BBW women to go to the bars and pick a guy up because they don't know if the guy is interested or not. I don't have that problem, because if you're not interested, whatever, that's your problem. I'm not afraid to flirt with somebody. If I'm interested in somebody I let them know.
I'm here to tell you that sexy is a mindset, not a waistline. If you want to wear a tight dress that hugs your curves, the. Honey do so. If you want to wear a pair of heels that makes ya butt look good? Flaunt it. Do/Wear what makes you feel great no matter what. In the dating world, take care of yourself first and then someone will come along. Speaking of being a plus size in the dating world...
Most of my BBW friends date guys of all sizes. I think some of them are attracted to bigger guys, but actually I would say it's about half and half. I'm really a personality person TBH. I don't think men judge women for their looks any more than women judge men. It goes both ways. I think most women have to get over their own insecurities and realize that there are plenty of men who find them attractive, and if a couple don't, that's fine. They don't realize how much fun they are or how attractive they really are. Just because a guy isn't attracted to you doesn't mean there aren't other men who are attracted to you. Find your niche and be the Queen you know you are. Flaunt the thighs & bat them eyes, ladies. So do what makes you feel beautiful no matter your size.
Ps: I don't skinny shame. This is just the perspective coming from a BBW like myself.
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