Find Someone who knows how Lucky they are to Have You -Part 1

Ever wondered what women look for in a man? There are mannnnny articles on this but I wanted to make it a little more relate-able by surveying local people in the area. I had one question to ask. What qualities do you look for in the opposite sex? After gathering information for many volunteers, here are the top 15 things women look for in a man since the fellllla's didn't submit enough information to blog about.

1. Have a good sense of humor. It takes less than a minute for a girl to know if a guy has a good sense of humor while having a conversation with him. And that’s all you need to impress a girl. All girls know that a guy with a great sense of humor can be a lot of fun over dates or phone calls. Have a light hearted and fun approach towards life and try to look at the bright side all the time. You’ll draw women to you like moths to a flame. 
2. Good grooming. Dress well and look good no matter where you are. You never know when you’d bump into the woman of your dreams. It’s a simple tip, but something almost all guys never focus on. Groom yourself well with quality man products and complex perfumes that smells great on you. Always brush your teeth! Smile is SO important.
3. Charming personality. A charming personality is everything, but yet it’s not something most men have. In fact, meeting a man who knows to charm a girl is a hard task for any woman. Improve your body language around women and learn your manners around them. 
4. A man who’s not a pushover. A guy who’s a pushover is one of the worst kinds of men in the hierarchy of dating. A pushover is a guy who prefers to accept defeat just to avoid conflict with someone who’s dominating him. Don’t ever be taken for granted by anyone, be it your own friends or a colleague. Have a spine and principles in life. If you feel you’re being wronged, learn to voice your opinion instead of being implosive.
5. A man who’s respected by others. Women like to be respected by the man they like, but they also like being with a guy who’s respected by others. If someone doesn’t respect you, is it your own fault? If it is, try to get better. If it isn’t your own fault, walk away from them. Or stand up and claim the respect you deserve from them. It all comes down to this, if you genuinely respect yourself and have an ego, would you ever allow someone to throw you around for no fault of yours? Stand up and be a man. 
6. A confident man. Confidence is a great trait to have for any man. It’s an inner strength that’s seen and envied by anyone you meet. A confident man is more attractive to women because he believes in himself and his abilities, and he doesn’t tuck tail and run when he knows he’s right. CONFIDENT NOT COCKY! 
7. A man who looks good. Good looks always make things easier when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. But when it comes to a man, thankfully for average looking men, there’s more than just a face carved by the gods that matters. Look your best, dress well and maintain a good posture. A straight back with an air of confidence can definitely impress the girl you like. Have a happy, cheerful face and a genuinely happy smile and you’ll do wonders.
8. A good conversationalist. Just like a good sense of humor, knowing how to speak to a woman is a trait that all women look for in a man. Be pleasant, speak smoothly in a low tone and show genuine interest in the woman while speaking to her. Create conversations around her and make her have a nice time with you. 
9. Respectful behavior. Be respectful towards others when they deserve your respect. All good natured women like a well mannered and kind man who doesn’t treat others badly just because he can. Don’t be rude to waiters or your subordinates unless you have a reason to. Treat everyone with respect and you’ll be treated with respect. Have good etiquette and treat women chivalrously, and you’ll notice them warming up to you almost instantly. 
10. Make her feel comfortable in her skin. Women like a man who makes them feel at ease within the first few minutes of a conversation. Be the guy who can take away the air of nervousness in a first conversation while talking to a woman and she’ll like you for it. Indulge in a pleasant conversation and ensure that she feels involved and excited to talk to you. 

Those are the detailed listing, but here are some of my personal favorite traits that were given that was not apart of the majority!

• Has to like TSwift. No exceptions.
• Using emojis in Text
• Swag
• Bootay
• Doesn't smoke
• Has to be in good physical condition, like actually take care of himself (if he has abs thats 10 bonus points) 
• Is respectful and understands that I am a boss ass bitch
• Is taller than me (which isnt hard to find....)
• Can be spontaneous/adventurous
• Can also just lay around and watch netflix with me all day
• INTELLIGENCE! I like my men smart!
• A fan of dogs 
• Flexible (as in can go with the flow, not like bendy!)
• Physical attraction a.k.a. Do I think they're hot!

All in all, look for someone who completes you. Someone to love and accept you. Love you for who you are and the better you that you can become. Accept you for the person you are. Your fails, your mistakes, your interest, your sense of humor, your opinions. Find someone who'll never get tired of kissing you everyday, who'll hug you when you're jealous, who'll understandingly keep silent when you're mad, who'll squeeze you're hand when you're not in the mood, who'll plan and imagine the future with you in it. Everyone has baggage. Find someone who is willing to help you unpack.